Cultural Baby Differences

There are lots of differences in how people here view pregnancy. On one hand they have a million pieces of advice on what you should and shouldn't eat, should and shouldn't do, etc.

• Do eat eggs, fish, apples, pigeon soup, and eat often - never be hungry
• Don't eat spicy food or drink coffee or cold water
• Do rest, walk, and rest
• Don't paint your nails, wear make-up, watch tv, use your cell phone, use your computer, use the microwave, or shower for a month after giving birth

This gets old. But on the other hand pregnant women are spoiled! They are told to take it easy, rest, relax. They always get a seat on the bus, don't have to carry heavy things, aren't expected to do as much work, and are really quite pampered. (Eric is constantly being asked if he helps more at home, makes me dinner, helps buy groceries, etc.)

Now after you have the baby, a common bathing option is baby bathing rooms usually located upstairs in a baby store. For about $1-$2 a time, you get hot water, a warm room, shampoo, body wash, and a large sink all to wash your baby. We went with a friend today to bathe her son. Interesting. It does make sense here though when some homes don't have hot water, homes in the south don't have central heating, and after the bath, there is no mess to clean up. Some even offer larger sinks where your baby can "go swimming"! Here's a picture outside the steamy room where we went today. (note the floaties on the wall)

A package in the store downstairs.